begging everyone to stop desexualising disabled people. we fuck. we masturbate. we have long-term relationships and we have flings and we go through slut eras. we do sex work. we’re not innocent little babies who can never be sexual. stop desexualising us*
*this is not attacking asexual disabled people. they’re also cool and valid. this is about a pattern of desexualisation of ALL disabled people
this feels so fucking silly to say out loud but I genuinely think we’re kind of negatively skewing body expectations for people w/ penises to the kind of ludicrous degree that its inevitably gonna cause mental health issues and complexes and dysphoria, particularly for trans/nb people. Big dicks are dope as hell but calling normal cocks small for being under like 6" and making fun of someone for that is fucking stupid considering the global average is between 4.5"-5.1". Youre gonna make some nice lovely young fag who hasnt had an in-person penis experience yet spiral and become obsessed and buy alt-med dick pills or dick extension surgery or some shit. I dont know how many of the people I’ve had a hook up with/dated that apologized repeatedly during sex because they were worried they weren’t “normal” down there or bottomed out of shame. We’re turning so many potential tops into bottoms with this madness
This is articulated and better said than what I can write
